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| Sunset at Sennen, Cornwall |
So,
here we are again, at the cusp of the year, the transition point where we look
forward and back. As I review the past twelve months, I rejoice in many things: the love of family and friends, a comfortable home in one of the most gorgeous
cities on earth, professional progress, two significant writing competition
wins, a growing network of supportive writing allies.
However,
2014 has also been a ghastly year. I started it with fine, overly-ambitious
plans. In January a very dear friend went missing. Many weeks of agonising
anxiety later, her body was found. I struggle on a daily basis with this,
because she was a special, joyous person who’d been such a significant person
in my life – and now she was gone, far far too soon, into the dark. A couple of
months after her funeral, my brother-in-law, staunch, cheery, loyal and loving,
devoted to my sister, had died – his death also completely out of the blue.
Shock
and grief derail you. In despair and devastation, work is something to cling
to. It gives shape to the days, it provides distraction. However I have at
times taken on too much, driven myself too hard. I’m not one of life’s
delegators – I always want to do it all myself. Over the past three years I’ve
trained myself to work at dead of night – I’m a natural owl anyway. But I’ve
taken it too far and for too long, to the detriment of health and
concentration. And apart from the spurts of creativity which led to those
competition wins, my own writing has ended up like the relative you haven’t
rung in ages. Week by week it becomes more difficult to pick up the phone.
So
what now? No resolutions – I don’t feel brave enough for those. Resolutions are
broken and you’re burdened by that breaking. When I ran my workshop/retreat in
St Ives in the autumn, we agreed it was better not to talk of ‘goals’ and ‘targets’
so much as anticipated ‘benefits’ from what we do.
Here,
then, are how I hope to create benefits in my life in the coming year:
Balance
I
need to find a better work/life balance and a better balance between helping
other writers and paying attention to my own creativity. I don’t want to feel
exhausted all the time. I want to refill the well and dip the bucket into the
well.
Focus
I’ll
continue to run my workshops in Oxford because I absolutely love face-to-face
teaching and interaction. I’ll be running my second Fictionfire by the Sea
Writers’ Workshop and Retreat in April and I can’t wait to see St Ives again. I’ll
be teaching at the Writers’ Festival at the University of Winchester in June
and in July and August will run creative writing summer schools on two Oxford
University programmes. I’ll continue to edit and appraise manuscripts and
mentor writers, of course, but will be wary of over-commitment in these areas.
Creation
I
have so many stories waiting to be written or waiting to be revised and
published. I won’t set specific dates but I will aim to get more of my work out
into the world this year, not locked into hard drives and tucked into folders.
The important thing, whether I have two readers, two hundred or two thousand,
is to make the work available on my own terms.
How
to do this? I have to learn to inhabit my own stories once more. When working
on a client’s manuscript, in a way it becomes my manuscript – I have to live inside that story to discover its
achievements and its flaws, to evolve suggestions for improvement. It’s an
incredibly rewarding process and it’s a great responsibility when a writer
entrusts their work to me – but at the same time, it puts me at a mental
distance from my own imagination and my own plots and characters.
Re
for revive
To
sum up, 2015 means rebalancing of
elements and rediscovering of joy –
I hope. I aim to redefine the
structure of my time, because I’ve slipped into a habit of being in Fictionfire
mode seven days a week. I need to set aside days for my own writing and days
for being free of all of it. I want to read more – I want to rediscover splurge-reading, from cover
to cover, not getting through a book in sporadic, interrupted segments.
Someone
very wisely said to me recently that I need to try treating myself as I would a
client. So, balance, focus, kindness, honesty, nurturing myself instead of
hectoring myself – I will try to incorporate these into my writing life.
As
the New Year dawns, you might like to examine how you balance the elements of
your life. Do you give yourself downtime? Have you evaluated where you stand
and where you want to go and analysed how to optimise your chances of getting
there? Bereavement makes us take a step – no, several steps – back from our own lives. Where are you in your life’s
journey? (I hate to use the ‘j’ word, but it actually is the best metaphor for
how we see our life-stories unfolding). If you’re young, you see numerous
potential routes ahead and the sheer choice may dizzy or alarm you as much as
excite you. If you’re older, those choices may have narrowed and you may worry
that you chose the wrong paths. Is it too late to retreat? Can you make the
best of the path you’re on? Can you choose another?
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| Sunrise over St Ives Bay |
Take
the long view of your life. What do you want to achieve with it? Achievement
doesn’t need to mean money and glory. Achievement is that sense you have within yourself, quiet and satisfying,
that you’ve made progress, that you’ve added something to the significance of
your life that wasn’t there before.
I
wish you balance, focus and the joy of creativity. I wish you love and
fulfilment. I wish you every benefit you would wish for yourself in the coming
year.
Fictionfire Literary Consultancy - the new series of Focus Workshops in Oxford will be announced imminently. Fictionfire by the Sea Writers' Workshop and Retreat in St Ives in April - places are already very limited. Sign up on my website to join the mailing list for news of workshops, courses and new developments.
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